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Giving Thanks

December 4, 2025

Season of Gratitude

At this point in my life, it is easy to feel gratitude each day. As turmoil circles around in this great big world, I sometimes remind myself not to lose sight of the goodness in most people. I notice that friends, relatives, and those I meet each day genuinely want to do what is right and honest for themselves and for those around them.

I hope you, too, find hope each day in the people you cross paths with. Yesterday I substituted in an elementary music classroom—talk about joyful!! Another highlight of the day was recess duty, snow and all. Sooooo much fun!

It’s been one week since Thanksgiving. Over the last several months, I watched my neighbor, Farmer Skip at Green Meadow Farm, care for the turkeys he would harvest in time for the holiday. I believe that raising animals using best farming practices to feed people is an act of kindness for the greater community. Skip uses high-quality protein grain milled in Maine, and the turkeys’ diet—along with that of the cows and chickens on the farm—is supplemented by what they find in the pasture, which is free from PFAS chemicals.

I’m not immune to those who say, “Oh, the poor turkeys.” But for a relatively low cost, turkeys can feed a large number of people, and when the meal is done, the leftovers often last for days. So, thank you, Farmer Skip, and others like you, for raising turkeys that feed Maine people.

I hope you had a wonderful Thanksgiving and that you can join me in finding gratitude each day.

As I mentioned in my last blog post, I am making changes to this site. Please make a note: one of the changes will be a new URL. I will be moving from meartsed.wordpress.com to argynestor.com. (Not yet, but soon.) My email will continue to be meartsed@gmail.com. Please don’t hesitate to contact me if I can answer your questions or support your work.

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So Long 23, Helloooo 24!

January 1, 2024

Peek back, move on

Traditionally I make a Greek New Year’s bread called Vasilopita which is baked with a coin inside. As the new year arrives the bread is cut, a slice for each family member, friends and neighbors. Whoever is the finder of the buried coin is blessed with fortune during the year. I wish you all the best of luck and good fortune during 2024!

Recently I learned about the Pridrangar Lighthouse that stands 110 feet from the ocean’s surface. The name Pridrangar means “three rock pillars” which reflects the giant sea stacks upon which the lighthouse rests. It is located in Iceland, six miles off the southern coast and was constructed in 1939. Experienced mountaineers were recruited to scale the sea stack to build it. When life is challenging perhaps giving thought to how difficult it was to build the lighthouse will provide some ease in your load.

Today I pause for a short time to review my 2023. I am feeling all the emotions of living each day to the fullest. I think about the challenges I’ve taken on including planning the Sestercentennial (250 years) for my small Maine town, the new things I’ve learned like carving wooden spoons, the medical situations I’ve faced including carpal tunnel surgery, the collaborations I’ve been part of including stitching a 25 foot by 7 feet piece of art that will hang in a law firm in Philadelphia. I’ve been thrilled to publish a book after working with a poet friend for almost 2 years, to visit with friends that I haven’t seen in 50 years, and to travel to a country I’ve never been to. I am grateful for the small things in life including watching amazing sunrises from my front yard, paddling along silently as an eagle flies overhead, walking through the woods to look closely at tracks in the snow. I never lose sight of how fortunate I am which reminds me to have an open heart when sewing hundreds of dresses and pants for children in other countries or taking time to make cards for friends or going to lunch with an older friend once a month. As with many of you, I am feeling the tragedy of the shootings in Lewiston. The many young children, relatives and friends who have lost loved ones during a few minutes of a day. My heart breaks for people around the world who endure the daily terrors of war. I think about the environment and work to minimize my negative impact.

I am mindful of the importance of light, reaching as many as possible. My biggest question as a teacher: Is what I’m doing in the best interest of every learner? The question I ask today is: Am I contributing to help make the world a better place? As I consider my hopes and dreams for 2024 please know that I appreciate the work educators do every day in the classroom. You may have heard me say this during the pandemic and it still rings true today: Whatever you decide to do, is the right thing and enough. Thank you for continuing to spread your light. As we look up at the sky on a clear Maine night and see the same stars we are all connected.

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Travel

November 20, 2019

Learning from travel

My Dad, 1942

My father grew up in a small village called Akrata on the Peloponnese in Greece. When he was 10 years old he was sent on a boat to America with all of his worldly possessions to live with his uncle. His father had died and his step mother needed help to raise the three children so they sent “the worse one.” My father’s journey was only beginning – he went on to become a successful student, athlete, and leader in school and community.

He enlisted in the Army and fought for three years in WWII through Africa, Sicily, the beach at Normandy, through France and Germany where he was wounded and returned to the states. He was greeted by my mother (and his entire Greek community) who he had married a week before he left. Through all of the hardships my father never lost site of the opportunities afforded him because of traveling to the US. He gave to his community over and over and worked hard all his life.

My parents in 1944 not long after Dad returned from the war.

While growing up my family didn’t have money to use for travel purposes. My parents instilled in us the value of hard work and giving to our communities – their examples of that were provided daily. My sister and I worked from age 10 in our family summer businesses. We saved enough money to go to college and when the opportunity to travel to Greece and Egypt (3 weeks, $600 dollars included everything) came up, we couldn’t say no. Sitting in the hotel in 1973 in Athens a woman was introduced to us – turned out it was my father’s sister, Yiota. She was a new baby when my Dad left Greece in 1928. We traveled with her to Akrata and returned with the key to the homestead.

The Greek Orthodox church in Akrata

Returning home my parents decided not to wait until they retired to travel to Greece but went the next summer. My Dad had not seen or had any contact with his sister and his brother Nick since he had left about 40 years earlier. (Brother Nick passed away from TB when he was 21). It was an incredible homecoming for my parents.

Since my first visit I’ve returned a handful of times, one of the most memorable was going for Greek Easter in 1994 with my parents. That trip helped me realize the importance of family and of passing forward the love of family.

I returned last week from a trip to my family’s village with both of my sons. Passing forward the stories, the ideas and the understanding of our roots to them is important to me and now them.

At the Parthenon

The above provides the background for this post – it’s about stepping out of your daily routines to learn in a different way. We’re fortunate that we live in a time where we can access knowledge and information from around the world in multiple ways. We don’t have to hop on a plane and travel for 15 hours to get somewhere but we can view videos of far away places, connect through face to face communications with teachers and students on the opposite side of the globe, and collaborate on learning projects – to name a few ways. Yes, it takes time and work but it is all worth it.

My sons with Yiota

Think about these questions – what is different about education today? What might be the benefits to think differently about day to day education? Why connect with educators or help facilitate access to learning for your students with others from a different culture? Only you can consider the benefits for you and/or your students but I encourage you to do so.

I am grateful to stand on the shoulders of giants in the work I do in education and on the shoulders of family members from a tiny village 4,521 miles from my home in Maine. Every trip (in real time or electronic connections) help me to understand why I do what I do and the importance of pushing on my beliefs to continually learn.

The blue door on the pathway to the plakia not far from my father’s home. It is the one constant every time I return.