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Relationships

March 5, 2021

Edutopia

We all know how important relationships are in education, especially the ones that we form with our students. Probably the most challenging part of ‘schooling away from school’ last spring was how to maintain and continue building relationships. Social Emotional Learning has been key to understanding the challenges of our learners. That term has moved to the center of educational conversations in the last several months.

Not only is the teacher-to-student relationship important but so is the student-to-student relationship. As the work at my school evolved last spring we brainstormed ways that we could bring learners together so they’d have that social component at the same time that they were learning. We considered how we do that ‘IN’ school and ways to adapt that. We started by gathering first thing in the morning by zoom for ‘breakfast club’ which lasted for about 15 minutes. This helped all of us with a routine and for those that need that ‘social time’ they had it with all of their classmates. They used the chat box and some days started with one ‘word’ to describe how they were feeling. No judgement, no feedback was provided, just a moment to share one word. Some days we started with it and sometimes we said one word before we signed off for the day. During the day each learner had a short time with one teacher for instruction. The piece that was missing was the collaborative learning.

Edutopia published THIS ARTICLE called 7 Ways to Maintain Relationships During Your School Closure written by Sarah Gonser. 

We learned enormously from the situation that we were all suddenly thrown into last March. Our goal this year was to take what we had learned and build and expand on it. This year we have put small group instruction and collaborative learning at the heart. Learners are exchanging ideas, learning from each other and building on their knowledge together. We utilize technology tools more effectively at the same time we’re mindful that the human connection is critical. Is it perfect? No, but we’re always tweaking and learning from each other as well as from the students. Watching, listening, and learning from them is always at the heart. 

The Maine Department of Education hired Kellie Bailey to develop Social Emotional Learning tools and opportunities to help support the field. You can access their tools and information for trainings at THIS LINK

Most importantly for teachers and students is that we are mindful of the continuous shift. We need to reach out to others and remember we are not alone. We’re all in this together!

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Welcome Back!

November 26, 2012

The importance of relationships

Kevin Grover

I hope your Thanksgiving was wonderful and that you had a restful break. I know you return to school this morning after your few days off to a variety of students who have had a break that may have been similar to yours or quite different. Most importantly I hope that they are glad to see you because you make a difference in their life. Perhaps this is about the learning that takes place in your classroom or maybe it is for another reason. When a teacher connects with a student whether they are in elementary, middle or high school it is often because of the relationship that has been established. This is also true for the relationship that teachers have with colleagues.

On Friday I learned of a colleague who passed away at age 40 on Thanksgiving when he returned from a morning run. Kevin Grover taught at Falmouth Elementary School and was the 2010 Maine Teacher of the Year. His family was very important to him, he was a husband and the father of two young children. He has made an enormous impact on those he has touched over the years.

When asked about teaching in 2010 Kevin said:  “I love it, two days are never the same. Kids offer so many teachable moments.” He felt strongly about working with parents so they viewed themselves as “partners” in the educational process. He called parents “the most important teacher” in a child’s life and said “parents need to be aware of what their child is doing in school and be comfortable speaking to teachers.” And about relationships Kevin said: “To help motivate them, I have to establish relationships and figure out their interests, and incorporate their interests in their school work.” He would greet students each day as they entered his classroom to “get a sense of how each child is feeling”.

Kevin loved technology and incorporated it into his classroom in a variety of ways. Kevin was the first teacher that I saw using a flip camera. I noticed how comfortable he was with it, one time using it in between his speaking responsibilities at an event at the State House. He was curious, interested, and deeply committed to learning and teaching.

Teachers don’t know where their teaching ends and I am certain that even though Kevin is gone from Earth that his impact will continue.

Kevin with his flip camera as Governor Baldacci and the First Lady prepare to speak